tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178647238310680492.post3733391386198407628..comments2023-10-29T05:32:51.969-05:00Comments on DachshundStrong: Everything Old Is New AgainNesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02184900184545881232noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178647238310680492.post-55410759071856435812008-10-13T08:35:00.000-05:002008-10-13T08:35:00.000-05:00I know mama's blame themselves - but Ness, you hav...I know mama's blame themselves - but Ness, you have done everything in your power to help your daughter and get her well. Don't blame yourself for inept people in the ER. You just focus on taking care of yourself and KJ. Know we are here. We are praying. And it is going to work out just fine.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18000962853788425167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178647238310680492.post-16801423271987805472008-10-12T20:32:00.000-05:002008-10-12T20:32:00.000-05:00Ness,I just got home from my trip to Tampa and had...Ness,<BR/><BR/>I just got home from my trip to Tampa and had to come and check on you all first thing. I'm sorry to hear that KJ isn't doing any better. I'm keeping the prayers going. Please call if there is anything at all I can do.<BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/>StephStephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06147590184185583779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178647238310680492.post-45225599140672643322008-10-12T00:18:00.000-05:002008-10-12T00:18:00.000-05:00Oh Nessie,I am so, so sorry to hear that KJ is exp...Oh Nessie,<BR/><BR/>I am so, so sorry to hear that KJ is experiencing even more problems. I was so hoping... I cannot believe that the staff at the hospital allowed her to go back home with a fever after what she went through. WHAT WERE THEY THINKING?????? It makes me sick to think how absolutely helpless she must have been feeling. We feel vulnerable enough when we are sick, but then to have the ER staff send her back home is unacceptable. That poor, poor thing.<BR/><BR/>Ness, as always, I am going to tell you that this was not your fault in any way, shape or form! You used your best judgement at the time, with the info that you had. She had no headache and she had a cough. Sounds like a possible cold, flu, etc. Not a shunt issue. You had no way of knowing what was brewing. Honestly, I don't think things would have gone any differently if you had considered a shunt problem since she had already been to the ER. So please, no "mommy guilt". It won't do you any good and it clogs your brain!<BR/><BR/>KJ is in my thoughts and prayers. She WILL get better. It's just going to be a lot more complicated than it should be. You and I both understand how that goes, dear friend. Keep your hopes up. You will get her through all of this because that is what a mom is good at doing. Especially one who loves her baby girl as much as you do...<BR/><BR/>I will check back again tomorrow in hopes of some better news.<BR/><BR/>Love you,<BR/>DebbieDebrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05328458241519464529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178647238310680492.post-10887683744725668932008-10-11T21:29:00.000-05:002008-10-11T21:29:00.000-05:00Ness you are an incredible mother...don't kick you...Ness you are an incredible mother...don't kick yourself for this. You are doing all you can with what you've got right now. How I wish I could help somehow. Please know I'm praying for KJ and all of your family.<BR/><BR/>And poohey on that doctor ;)joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12112607125596693550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178647238310680492.post-38542057665445808422008-10-11T20:11:00.000-05:002008-10-11T20:11:00.000-05:00my dear ness you have no reason to kick yourself t...my dear ness you have no reason to kick yourself there is no way of knowing IF the shunt is the problem until she is seen at St Elizabeths the folks in SI are probably drawing straws trying to pawn her off ... as for a dr who does not go in on the weekends... PFFT he needs to be removed from the hospital ... only dr's who do offices exclusevly dont go in on the weekend and they still go to hospitals once in a while!<BR/>Hugs and prayers <BR/>Love you guys!<BR/>LauraLaura ~Peach~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06436851234824883774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178647238310680492.post-88401633192634804752008-10-11T18:37:00.000-05:002008-10-11T18:37:00.000-05:00Ness, I just don't hardly know what to say. A sma...Ness, I just don't hardly know what to say. A small miracle happened last evening and I was actually cleaning up my kitchen, which caused me to miss your call. Then I went to bed very early, but Hallie clued me in this morning.<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry I missed your call; I'm so sorry for KJ; I'm so sorry for you and Roger. I even feel a little bit sorry for that doctor that DOESN'T GO INTO THE HOSPITAL ON WEEKENDS--ummm...huh?--because what goes around comes around, and his day will be coming. Soon, hopefully.<BR/><BR/>Big hug, Ness...kim-dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11650811256788756378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178647238310680492.post-34786362578489680412008-10-11T08:31:00.000-05:002008-10-11T08:31:00.000-05:00Things have GOT to turn around soon for KJ! She h...Things have GOT to turn around soon for KJ! She has already been through so much! You've been through so much too. Thinking of you...as always :)<BR/><BR/>Kimmykimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09905962393992117434noreply@blogger.com